9
December

Another Kind of Love …

 

Zoey ♥

I was browsing a social networking site one morning when I saw a very striking and beautiful picture of a young girl reading a book under their dining table. I felt warm inside me … my thoughts while looking at the picture was that of awe – admiration. How blessed this girl is … she loves to read. I believe that the love for reading opens for the person the window to an amazing world. It allows immeasurable possibilities for discovery and growth. It is a gift not everyone has … like not very many people love reading.

Looking back, I vividly remember the feeling I had when, during my son’s Parent-Teacher Meeting, his class adviser Mr. Angni told me about his concern with my son. He told me “Ma’am, your son keeps on reading books”. He continued … “I observed he’d rather read his books than play around with his friends. Every time there’s a break, however short, he’d always get his book and sit in a corner and read …”

Well, that came as no surprise to me, what the teacher said, because I knew already. He reads book at home, too, voraciously!

For a parent like me who also loves to read, I didn’t see anything wrong with it. Of course I know that reading books has to be regulated, too! Like there’s a good time to read and then there are other things to do besides reading, like answering assignments and doing house chores. I am just glad that my son prefers to read than watch television; that he favors reading than playing online games.

The love for reading good books is invaluable, and it has been said that …

Books are the quietest and most constant of friends; they are the most accessible and wisest of counselors, and the most patient of teachers.

~Charles W. Eliot

 “Happy is he who has laid up in his youth, and held fast in all fortune, a genuine and passionate love of reading.”

~Rufus Choate

And as a mother, let me borrow the words of Anna Quinden when she said …

I would be most content if my children grew up to be the kind of people who think decorating consists mostly of building enough bookshelves.  ♥♥♥

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6
December

What Greater Gift Can We Give Our Children?

From the moment they were born, our children took over our world. Everything we do is for them …

And so what greater gift can we give them?

Not the gifts that come from stores wrapped in fancy paper …

Nor the expensive toys or clothes that money can buy …

If we truly love or children …

We will teach them to be honest …

We will teach them to be humble, and teachable …

We will teach them to be good people …

We will prepare them for adulthood … for parenthood …

For one day they too, will be like us.

We will teach them to respect people; to be understanding and kind …

We will teach them to work hard and smart; to compete with themselves, not with others …

To know their worth, not based on how much money they have, or the brand of the clothes they wear, or how better-looking they are than their friends …

We will teach them to help others …

And we will teach them about God, our Heavenly Father …

And Jesus Christ.

We will teach them that life is not just about what’s here and now …

That there is life eternal.

We should teach them to pray, morning, noon, and evening;

To have a grateful heart, and to say thank you always.

If we truly love them, we should do our best to teach them all these, and more…

And the best way to do all these is to show them … by our own examples …

One day at a time.

 

 

 

 

 

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16
November

10 Ways to Teach Values in the Home*

The home is the best place for children to learn good values. Values guide our behavior and help us make decisions between right and wrong. Our sense of values determines the way we spend our time and money. Priorities in life are based on what we value.

Parents teach children their values by what they say and how they act. Therefore, parents should agree on what values are important. Certain values, such as honesty, courtesy, and service, should be part of every family’s values. Children who learn and follow moral values are more likely to make wise decisions when they are older. Teach your children that decisions they make while they are young affect the rest of their lives.

Parents who do not teach their children correct values deprive them of solid basis for approaching life. Gordon B. Hinckley said, “The home is the seed bed of all true virtue. If proper values are not taught in the home, they are not likely to be taught at all.”

 

The following ten suggestions can help us teach our children proper values in our own homes:

  1. Give Our Children Responsibilities in the Home
  1. Help Our Children Set Goals
  1. Teach by Example
  1. Study Our Family History
  1. Serve with Our Family
  1. Establish Family Traditions
  1. Monitor the Media
  1. Look for Teaching Opportunities
  1. Decide Which Values Are Nonnegotiable
  1. Allow Children to Participate in Family Decisions

The power to choose is one of the greatest gifts God has given humanity. Children who are allowed to share in family decisions will be more willing to obey family rules.

Allow children to make decisions that are appropriate for their ages and responsibility levels. This provides them freedom but does not sacrifice family values.

Explain to children the reasons for having family rules and the values attached to those.

The following can be done as a family:

  • Set a curfew.
  • Establish rules about inviting friends to the house.
  • Plan activities and vacations.
  • Divide and assign household chores.

* From a Pamphlet of the same title by the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints

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