Tag: love


Why Heavenly Father Loves Little Children …

4
January

Right after the flood subsided, a mother and her two children walked barefoot to the Macasandig Baranggay Hall. They were wet and tired and dirty … Then for a brief moment, the girl stopped and smiled a very sweet smile … as she waved to her primary teacher, my daughter Ella, who was at that time waiting for a tricycle to her work. Then she walked again … following her Mom and brother.

That scene took Ella by surprise – she did not know what to say. When she came home after work, she asked us if Sister Labitad and her family had been reached by our Bishop. You see, early dawn that day, just a few hours after our Ward Christmas Party, a deadly flash flood 7 meters high wiped out whole communities in our area, killing at least a thousand people and rendering hundreds of families homeless.  We were thinking of them at the height of the flood. There was very little we could do. There was total blackout in our area as light went out as early as 11 pm the night before in the whole city. Rain was also pouring which made things more difficult.

Finally, three nights after that deadly flash flood, I finally was able to talk to Sister Labitad and heard about their ordeal. I had goosebumps all over me as I listened to what they had to go through. I had tears running down my face and a lump in my throat as I listened about a mother’s fear and agony over the possibility of losing her children and her own life. But from all this I learned a very simple truth … Children have abiding faith … full, 100% faith in God! Children are full of hope, too! And they easily forget… And above all, they are always sweet – no matter what they’ve been through! ♥♥♥

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To My Young Friends: How Will You Know If It Is Love You’re Feeling?

12
October

I always tell my students (I teach a course on Dating, Courtship, and Marriage in a local Institute of Religion) a simple fact on what happens when a person is totally engulfed in an emotion generally described as infatuation: more often than not, the reason for the attraction is difficult to describe. When infatuated, one finds it almost impossible to pinpoint to a single reason for the attraction.

Here’s a common scenario between two or more friends where one friend asks: what do you like in him/her?  The response is almost always like this: “I’m not really sure. He/she just makes me happy, and I like being with him/her!” … or something like this: “I like his/her eyes. They sort of like ‘speak’!”.

To the one who gave the answer, it’s the truth; it’s his or her reality. Ironically, to the friends or the people around, they find the answer or reason given questionable, most especially if the person being described is, in the perception of the many, not as he/she was described. Then the famous adage: “if you can only borrow my eyes!”. So what then?  Well, as most adults will say, infatuation is a fleeting feeling. It is fleeting (or does not stay long) simply because the reason for the attraction is very shallow.

Then the next question comes: how will one know if what he or she is feeling is true or real love? The answer is best described by David O. McKay when he said: ” My mother once said that if you meet a person in whose presence you feel a desire to achieve, who inspires you to do your best, and to make the most of yourself, such a person is worthy of your love and is awakening love in your heart”.

The Lord’s counsel is simple when it comes to dating, courtship, and in finding the best person for an eternal relationship: prepare well for the best person who will come into your life by becoming the best person yourself! As the counsel suggests: as important as finding the right person is being the right person. Indeed there is truth to the teaching that says “light attracts light”; “intelligence attracts intelligence” …

Lastly, always remember that all of us have a choice; and so when making a decision, most especially on the MOST important decision you will ever do in this life (finding your eternal companion),  make sure that you make a conscious decision, made following the teachings of the gospel as taught be the Lord and His prophets.

 

 

 

 

 

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I’m Blessed Because I Have You ♥♥♥

5
October

Who would have thought

We’d end up together?

You were shy

and I was not

You were different

from all the rest I’ve known.

And now

years and years after …

here we are

together

still working on

ourselves

our kids

and each other

looking in the same direction

holding on to each other

hoping

and praying

for the same things

that matters most in our lives…

Now as i look at you

and see the marks of age and wisdom

i often ask myself

what life could have been

without you?

So i say a prayer

of gratitude to God

for I would not want life any other way…

only with you.

Life’s troubles and problems

came constantly into our doorstep

lingered and stayed

long enough to teach us

life’s lessons

and what matters most.

And so i thank

Heavenly Father

For giving you to me…

to have and to hold

to lean on

to look up to

to cry with and laugh with.

What we have

and what we don’t

doesn’t make who we are

or what we are.

Love matters most

and you

and our children,

us …

together

hopefully …

forever.

i love you ♥

 

 

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